Stanley Paul Darer, 79, of Stamford, died on Nov. 3. He was the husband of Susan Darer. Born in the Bronx, N.Y., he was the son of Harry H. Darer and Mollie K Darer. He served in the U.S. Army in Japan. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his children, John Darer of Stamford, Sarah Darer Littman of Cos Cob, and Anne Darer of Brooklyn; and four grandchildren.