Anita Alpert, 81, of Hamden, formerly of North Haven, died April 29. She was the widow of Harold Alpert. Born in New Haven, she was the daughter of the late Max and Sylvia Hevenstone. She is survived by her son Scott Alpert and his wife Tina of Newington; and her brothers, Harvey Hevenstone and his wife Judy of Bridgeport, and David Hevenstone and his wife Rosalyn of New York, N.Y.