Jay Arthur Kobrin, 81, of Stamford, Sante Fe, N.M., and New York City, died Feb. 21. He was the husband of Gordon Micunis. Born in Manhattan, he was the son of the late Hortense and Irving Kobrin. He is survived by his partner Gordon Micunis. In addition to his husband, he is survived by his adopted son Peter Saracena; his brothers, Lawrence and his wife Ruth, and Richard and his wife Gloria; and many nieces and nephews.