Barry Neil Gordon, 78, of Farmington, died March 22. He was the husband of Betsey Auerhaan Gordon. He was the son of the late Anna (Siegel) and Hyman Gordon. He served the U.S. Air Force. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his children, Amy Hirschberger and her husband Steven of Harwich, Mass., and  David Gordon and his wife Ruta of Iselin, N.J.; his sister Sandra Perlman of West Hartford; and his grandchildren, Jenna, Anjali, Jacob, Kavita, and Austin.