Betty Jane (Neiditz) Goldberg, 93, of Haverhill, Mass., formerly o f West Hartford, died aApril 3. She was the widow of Leo Goldberg.  Born in Hartford, she was the daughter of the late Raymond and Dora (Shapiro) Neiditz. Ms. Goldberg was a member of Temple Emanu-El and life member of Hadassah. She is survived by her children, Charles Goldberg of Mount Vernon, N.Y., and Carol Ann Goldberg-Aydin of New York City; and the grandmother of Max Goldberg and his fiancé Connie Lorenzo, Hannah Goldberg, and Rebecca Aydin. She was also predeceased by her son Robert Goldberg.