Paul Grande, 87, of West Hartford, died August 2. He was the husband of Nancy Grande. Born in Brooklyn, N.Y., he was the son of the late Isadore and Ruth (Newman) Grande. He made his home with his wife Nancy Grande, in Connecticut, Virginia and The Villages of Florida during their 37 years of marriage. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his children, Allan Grande and his wife Cynthia of Colchester, Sara Gavens and her husband Andrew of Niskayuna, N.Y., and Ian Grande  and his husband Richard of Bloomfield; his granddaughters, Melissa Gavens, Jennifer Gavens and Molly Gavens; his stepdaughters, Robin Hirtle and her husband Russ of Granby, and Sandra Schultz and her husband Ken of West Hartford; and his step-grandchildren, Robert and his wife Mallory, and Gretchen; his sisters, Dayle Herstik of Monroe, N.J., and Helene Epstein and her husband Albert of Edison, N.J.; a niece and several nephews. He was also predeceased by the mother of his children, Sonia Berke, and his brother-in-law Lawrence Herstik.