By Rabbi Tzvi Hersh Weinreb
At this time of year, we begin to think about the upcoming High Holidays and the requirement that we embark upon a process of introspection, of repentance, of teshuvah.
This leads us to think about ethics and to wonder how one gets started upon the process of becoming a more ethical person? Where do we look to find guidance in ethical matters?
On the subject of universal ethics, I have long been guided by a passage in the writings of Rabbi Abraham Isaac HaCohen Kook, Israel’s first chief rabbi. He speaks of two sources for ethical guidance. The first is yir’at shamayim, fear of heaven, which is a religious source. The second is hamussar hativ’i, natural ethics, by which he means the knowledge of right and wrong, which is available to all mankind, regardless of religion. Rav Kook asserts that these two sources go hand-in-hand and must be consistent with one another.
More recently, I have been reading Psychiatry and Ethics, a book by the psychiatrist Maurice Levine, that begins with a quotation from Charles Darwin’s autobiography:
“I had… followed a golden rule, namely that whenever a published fact, a new observation or thought came across me, which was opposed to my general results, to make a memorandum of it without fail and at once; for I had found by experience that such facts and thoughts were far more apt to escape from the memory than favorable areas. Owing to this habit, very few objections were raised against my views, which I had not at least noticed and attempted to answer.”
Levine uses this interesting habit of the father of the theory of evolution to illustrate what he considers to be a fundamental process in the development of a truly ethical person. He calls this the process of “self-scrutiny”. He writes, “A good part of a man’s ethics consists of the ways in which he copes with his temptations.” Darwin was aware of his own temptation to only recognize evidence that supported his theories and to conveniently ignore or forget facts that would undermine them. And he acted to control that temptation.
Darwin was certainly not unique in this weakness, although the manner in which he dealt with it was exemplary. We all have ideas about our projects, or about ourselves, and we all tend to pay careful attention to everything that would confirm our opinions. And we all excel at ignoring, suppressing, forgetting, or discounting all information that might force us to reevaluate our theories or, heaven forbid, re-examine our opinions about ourselves.
As Levine puts it, one of the fundamentals of sound ethical character is “the need to know oneself, the need to be as honest with oneself as possible, the need to avoid self-kidding.”
This week’s Torah portion, Shoftim, we encounter a mitzvah which seems to be given only to judges: “You shall not judge unfairly… you shall not take bribes, for bribes blind the eyes of the discerning and upset the plea of the just.” (Deuteronomy 16:19)
In the mid-19th century, a rabbi named Israel Salanter began a movement designed to educate people about the importance of ethics in the Jewish tradition. That movement was known as the “Mussar Movement,” “mussar” being the Hebrew word for ethics. This movement had many leaders over the generations and continues to have a significant contemporary influence.
One of the greatest representatives of the Mussar Movement was a man named Rabbi Abraham Grodzinski, who was murdered by the Nazis in the ghetto of Kovno during the Holocaust. Rabbi Grodzinski had a problem with the above verse in this week’s Torah portion. He wondered what those of us who are not judges can learn from the injunction against taking bribes.
The martyred rabbi had an answer that is strikingly similar to the observation about ethics that Dr. Levine was able to learn from Darwin’s autobiographical note. “We all have personal interests,” writes Rabbi Grodzinski, “personal inclinations that result in misperceptions, misjudgments, and tragic moral errors. These personal prejudices are the equivalent of bribery. Our own self-interest often blinds us and distorts our judgment as to what is right and what is wrong.”
The great ethical teachers in our tradition consistently point out that, in a sense, we are all constantly acting as judges in the decisions that we make throughout even the most mundane day. And we are always subject to “bribes;” that is, to the temptations to ignore information that is uncomfortable to us, that threatens our pre-existing assumptions, or that forces us to re-examine the question of whom we really are.
This brief excursion into the posthumously published writings of a saintly Holocaust victim, Torat Avraham Grodzinski, and the collection of a Jewish American psychiatrist’s lectures, Psychiatry and Ethics, helped us understand the first step for those of us who wish to initiate a process of teshuvah, of ethical self-improvement. It may very well be what our ancient scholars referred to as “cheshbon hanefesh,” and what a contemporary thinker has aptly termed “self-scrutiny.”