Irving Joel Friedman, 71, of Suffield, died July 1. He was the husband of Dian Debra Friedman. Born in the Bronx, N.Y., he was the son of Ben A. and Estella Friedman. He was a veteran of the United States Army, serving from 1960-1962 in Germany. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his sons, Benjamin Aaron and Joshua Jason. WEINSTEIN MORTUARY.